I have 3 close family members who are having babies this spring. My youngest is 12 so it has been a while since I was caring for a baby. Watching them go through the challenges and joys of pregnancy and caring for infants, makes me grateful I was younger when I had my 3. ;) However, it also had me take pause and reflect on the advice I received, and the notions that I believed to be right (whether they were or not), and how those around me reacted to it.
I remember a conversation that I had almost 20 years ago with a family member. I chose not to breastfeed my children. I simply did not want to. I didn't have any other reason for my choice. This family member was so upset with me, and told me how much damage I was doing to my child. I often wonder if she's aware that he's ok, and doing well in college now. He survived formula. My point is, every new mom, experienced mom, and super mom is entitled to her own belief, value system, and choices. We have to be a system of support for one another that is anchored in respect. It's often kind of interesting to learn from one another. Pregnant women are now cautioned from so many things, that I'm sure I wasn't clued into just 12 years ago. Talking with them and asking questions, rather than passing judgment can be a wonderful conversation.
And yes, I'm sure you did 'that', and survived. But try not to make any new mom feel bad for not doing what you did. She's got enough on her plate...I'm sure that is something all moms have in common. ;)
I've attached a funny video from Jimmy Fallon...enjoy!
Keep It Simple...and enjoy your cake! ♥D